"the trick with pornography is, you have to let go of the thought that you're looking at a picture of something you're not doing".
i wish i could remember where i read that now. it's true, though. brutally and bloodily true.
one problem with porn, from a male sub perspective, is that it feels a lot nicer to imagine a savage beating from a Beautiful, Cruel Woman than it feels to actually experience it.
a thrashing will hurt. it may well leave marks. it may make sitting or lying difficult for a day or two. so where do thrashings come from?
effectively, there are two forms of thrashing; play and punishment. the first is a reward, is enjoyable. the second is meant to hurt.
when Mistress wants to play, i can expect to be thrashed gently, taken up fairly slowly, hand in hand with my endorphins, riding my "home-made heroin" to subspace.
if Mistress is displeased however, there will be no build-up. the purpose of punishment is to give me boundaries. when i get it wrong or let Her down, i am given a physical reminder that i'm to do better next time.
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