it's a truism that *all* relationships need compromise to survive & develop. all of us, males and Real People, have at least a couple of non-negotiables - and reading this, if you haven't got at least children and animals as hard limits, that's probably part of why you're single.
there's an awfy temptation, particularly in situations where one's ego is being stimulated, to gloss over the bits we don't know.
bad move. you're not fooling anyone. and at worst, you could get yourself in over your head. or disappoint Someone you're trying to impress.
it's ok to admit that you don't know. why do you think Dommes queue up for workshops on everything from bee-keeping to buggery?
going back to the list you made of kinks 'n' limits, think about the ones that you'd absolutely love to find Someone into. imagine the disappointment, were this Someone to turn around - once She had the ring on your finger - and tell you She was only joking.
having been on the receiving end of someone who feigned proficiency, it's not a bundle of laughs. so try and imagine how long your relationship has to run - in minutes - from that point where She realises that you were only kidding about those ten years of experience as a masseur. or about scat not being one of your hard limits...
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