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what does a Dominant Woman look for in a submissive male?

there's no hard-and-fast rule here; no magickal spell or perfect haircut that'll make every Domme in the munch or chatroom want to enslave you, take you home and keep you naked and caged until death sets you free.

maybe, just maybe, Women are all unique. as different inside Their skulls as They look or express Themselves in clothes!

you wouldn't expect to get away with buying *every* Female Friend or Relative exactly the same present at ex-mess, would you?

what might go down better would be giving Each the same level of care 'n' attention in choosing, wrapping and delivering Their present.

similarly, although you can't be expected to fill all the needs of every Woman on the planet, by taking care of a few essentials, you might well find that there's a number of Ladies out there Who want to buy what *you're* selling.

you could start by looking through the personal ads on the various bdsm dating sites. at the point of writing this, there seems to be a zeitgeist for Women who enjoy watching males masturbating and/or playing with each other.

by the time you read this, i have no doubt the fascion will have moved on. *what Women want* will have changed. and will continue changing. make a list. look at the Ones you're not immediately attracted to.

now, time to be brutally, savagely honest. break your list down into six sub-lists:

stuff you get off on.

stuff you could do if you were really in love &/or turned on.

stuff you could do for Someone Else's benefit - but that doesn't turn you on - or repel you.

stuff that repels you, but that you could get through "with the love of A Good Woman"

stuff that you wouldn't consider doing unless She had a gun to your head (and even then, you'd need time to think)

stuff that you hadn't considered.